tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4352952808421444594.post2334125997766143711..comments2023-06-25T09:40:03.444-04:00Comments on Girly Bitz: I need your advice. The update.Gabihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17831284271466430916noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4352952808421444594.post-50362988455434168962011-01-03T08:31:08.102-05:002011-01-03T08:31:08.102-05:00Did he FIRST invite you to go with? Did SHE includ...Did he FIRST invite you to go with? Did SHE include you in the invite? Those would be TWO BIG factors in deciding if I was okay with him going or not... I think there is more to it than a simple yes or no... that probably doesn't help you much. Bottom line...if you're uncomfortable with it for some reason that should be important enough to him to just not go. So instead... he can do a guys night and just toss a donation to the rugby team. If its just about supporting the charity that should be a decent compromise, right?!Duckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06195603673076986036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4352952808421444594.post-86077071401105070162011-01-03T00:00:41.256-05:002011-01-03T00:00:41.256-05:00"Whenever you have to remove all sharp object..."Whenever you have to remove all sharp objects from my reach before you tell me about something, I think you know what my response is going to be." <br /><br />Okay, if he KNEW he needed to do this before telling you something, he KNEW what your reaction/response/answer would be, so...<br /><br />I dunno. I'm torn. On the one hand, I wouldn't be comfortable with it either (it just says "WEIRD!" to me for some reason, especially since, if it's mostly females, why wasn't the invitation extended to you?). On the other hand, if you trust him - which I'm sure you do, or you likely wouldn't be with him - what's the harm, right? And on the OTHER-other hand (yes, I have three hands: shut it :P ), if he knew you were going to react so... viscerally(?) to this, he should have said no in the first place (I have a pretty firm "If I'm important to you, and it's a big enough deal to be an issue to me, it should be important to you by association" thing where relationships are concerned).<br /><br />Or you could just take GunDiva's excellent suggestion... ;)<br /><br />xoxoChibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04247441931305025516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4352952808421444594.post-58910538034735087392011-01-02T21:38:29.572-05:002011-01-02T21:38:29.572-05:00Compromise...go with him. You're hotter than ...Compromise...go with him. You're hotter than any of the naked women he'll be with anyway.GunDivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02965363044411500380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4352952808421444594.post-23450043249154313032011-01-02T19:13:16.015-05:002011-01-02T19:13:16.015-05:00I dunno... did you watch the slideshow from that s...I dunno... did you watch the slideshow from that strip club's site? I did. Several times. As a matter of fact, before I weigh in with an opinion, I'd better go watch them a few more times...Cole Walter Mellonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14792991151019418800noreply@blogger.com